After Combat: Too Much Time on My Hands, Missing the Action

Among the many first-person narratives to come out of the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, a few start to address their growing awareness that they came back from the war with symptoms of PTSD. The recent warriors, now writers are just beginning to come to terms with the their experience, and both figuring it out and giving it effective voice is a difficult task that may get somewhat easier to accomplish in the years ahead. It's remarkable and positive to see the shortened cycle time in play as these warriors realize they may have PTSD, and it's also educational to hear how they describe what their concerns are, and what their adjustment has been like.

In former Marine sergeant Clint Van Winkle's recently published autobiographical work, "Soft Spots," he talks in one section about the experience so common to warriors -- that back in the "safety" (and boredom) of civilian life, they both have more time on their hands to think and revisit the past; and also an increasing sense that they miss tremendously the amped-up experience of war and their buddies -- the living and the dead.

Van Winkle, a Marine sergeant who first went to war on Valentines Day, 2003 was, according to the book jacket, "among the first wave of troops that crossed into Iraq, and his first combat experience was the battle of Nasiriyah, followed by patrols throughout the country, house-to-house searches, and operations in the dangerous Baghdad slums."

Here's how Van Winkle describes this collection of feelings and impressions, in an extended passage we've cut and spliced together somewhat for easier reading. The phrases in bold for emphasis are ones you hear again and again from combat veterans, in one form or another. With love and appreciation for the recent combat vets who are still processing these issues, and may be for years to come, here's what Van Winkle had to say about his own struggles to re-adjust:

“In war, no one asks you if you killed anyone.  You don’t have to say anything after a firefight.  You just come back and sit around with your fellow Marines. All you have to do is nod and they know. The questions are answered because you were there together.  They know and you know.  Nobody asked why one of us shot into that window or why the unit in front of us ripped into that bus or why I shop the group of men hiding behind that wall.  Everything was understood.

Maybe it wasn’t the war itself but the people who were in the war with me that I missed. Perhaps all I really wanted was to know it was all right and worth it and that my actions were justified.  I wanted to be back in the company of others who understood what it’s like to pull the trigger.  Wanted to get away from the questions and the made-up answers – to get back to a place where I felt normal again.

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Names of the war dead for the week scrolled across the bottom of the big-screen television. … No matter how many times I saw the different list of dead troops, I never got used to it or the feeling that maybe I should have been included.  I wasn’t familiar with any of the names, but that hardly meant anything to me.  I didn’t have to know the dead personally to know what kind of stuff they had participated in.  I mourned each as if he had been a personal friend, and the grief took a toll on me.

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I had too much time on my hands.Even though I was taking classes…I was bored – like being stuck in Kuwait without anything to do.  It was easy to understand why Gunny always had us doing something…. He must have known that boredom brings problems, allows too much time to think….

In some messed-up way, being home produced withdrawal symptoms. I’d experienced the most exciting events of my life. Nothing could ever compare to the feelings war induced.  Nothing. I’d never get the same adrenaline rush or create the kinds of bonds we Marines had with each other.  Civilian life was dull compared to what I’d done.

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But I wasn’t being unappreciative. If anything, the war had made me appreciate life more, helped me see what was important. It was just hard to express that appreciation when all I could think about was Iraq.  There was no escaping it.  Iraq was everywhere.

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True, it was over.  But in some respects the war had become more real than it had been while I was in Iraq.  There wasn’t much time for reflection while we were in country. I never stopped to think about what it all meant, or really even cared.  It wasn’t until I got home and started to talk to the dead, revisiting the war, that anything started to sink in. Was it worth it? I don’t know. That’s up to the dead to decide.

When I’m an old man and all the dreams and sights have left my head, when the memories are stolen from me, then historians will tell us whether it was worth it or not – if the war really helped anybody.  Until then, I’ll live with the dead.  We’ll carpool together.  Do lunch and late-night snacks.  Slumber parties and drinking binges.  It really won’t matter what anyone says, or if the whole stinking operation finally gets labeled a “good war.” It was too late for me. The dead and I were together.

From the book jacket:

Clint van Winkle, Soft Spots: A Marine's Memoir of Combat and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. Winkle was a sergeant in the U.S. Marine Corps. While in Iraq he served as an Amphibious Assault Vehicle section leader attached to Lima Company 3rd Bn 1st Marines. After completing his enlistment, he earned a B.A. in English, and then a Master's in Creative and Media Writing.

Editor's note: The illustration for this post is a wonderful drawing by Marine combat artist Michael D. Fay, of Lance Corporal Nicholas G. Ciccone, who suffered from PTSD and later sadly took his own life.